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why santa is not in our christmastime traditions

1/8/2015

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This article was originally published in the December 2014 edition of 605 Magazine. 

Oh sweet December, you have arrived. Your blustery winds, icy streets, and ethereal cascading snowfall all signify the beginning of an enchanting season. Christmastime. Just the mention of Christmas evokes deep-seated emotion for many of us as the holiday isn’t just gifts, warm red Starbucks cards, and catchy Christmas carols, but also a holiday that holds profound meaning. Some derive significance from the fact that historically the holiday marks the birth of Jesus Christ, others find meaning in the giving and hope of the season, and still others find meaning in the family traditions that draw their family together year after year.

For our small family of three and three-quarters (I always include our gigantic canine in our family count), the Christmas season is significant to us for all three reasons listed above. This year, however, as our daughter has reached a certain level of understanding, we realize that this is the year where she will really begin to understand and retain the traditions we establish.

Last year in this very column, I talked about today’s frenzied, commercialized version of Christmas and how I desperately wanted to embody and teach my daughter the opposite of “I want, I want, I want” not only during Christmastime, but throughout the whole year.

My husband and I have an ongoing conversation surrounding this topic and we have come to the conclusion that there are a few traditions we want to establish for our family when it comes to Christmastime. And one tradition that we have decided to leave out (brace yourselves ye Christmas lovers) is promoting the belief of Santa Claus to our children.

Imagine me ducking behind a snowy pine tree right now as I know some of you are throwing some serious “Bah! Humbug!” darts my way.

If you are, fear not. I throw no darts back at you. I absolutely understand that Santa Claus is fun and adds another element of magic to the holiday season.

But here’s the deal for me; Santa Claus is a fun story. Just like Frosty the Snowman, Snoopy, or Charlie Brown is a fun story. I will absolutely share the Santa story with my daughter and watch the timeless movies with her. The only difference is, I won’t pretend Santa really exists and go to extreme lengths to convince her of his existence only to one day have to convince her otherwise.

Instead, we have decided to make the season magical in other ways. One of them being, in lieu of making an exhaustive list of “wants”, why not let children make a list of a few top desires and then really place attention on the list of fun things they want to do for others? Then, come Christmas morning they have the joy of not only getting gifts but seeing how it feels to give. Ironically, the man Santa Claus is based on, Saint Nicholas did just that. After his wealthy parents died, Saint Nick spent his entire inheritance helping the needy by giving away much-needed gifts.

So, as the snow falls and the tree tops glisten this month of December, my desire is to conjure up the real magic of Christmas for me and my family. The magic in giving. The transformative act of sacrifice and the joy in hope this season brings. I pray the same for you. Merry Christmas!

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No Santa?!

12/1/2014

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Some of you may be here today because you read my recent article in 605 Magazine regarding our decision to leave out Santa Claus in our Christmastime family traditions. (Gasp!) Some of you agreed, some of you scoffed in dismay, and some of you just turned the page and didn't read it at all. Whatever camp you fall in, thank you for visiting me in this here cyber space!

This blog is a work in progress (obviously) and my hope is to one day not only post my thoughts, but thoughts of others. All that to say, I would love to hear from you. 

Once the December issue of 605 Mag is off the shelves, I will post the original article detailing why we have decided to not promote the belief in Santa Claus. But until then, I hope you come back and visit often as I will be regularly posting from here on out — well, as much as my Netflix addiction will allow. 

Thank you SO MUCH again for visiting and please don't hesitate to drop me a line!   
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